Maybe I am unusual, but there are times when I get really curious about how others perceive me, or what they value about me, or what I bring into their life.
I was skiing a while back with a guy and on the chairlift he shared two great questions that he had asked people within his circle as part of an exercise to gain greater understanding of himself. Here they are:
1. What shows up when I come into the room?
2. What was I doing when you have noticed me most energized, or “in the zone”?
I like both of these because they call me as the answerer into a level of observation that is both unusual and profoundly illuminating! Give it a whirl.