It occurs to me that this is how change comes about. When challenged, we can hunker down and protect ourselves and likely not change or grow as we focus on simply surviving. Another way is to face the challenge, honor our fears, and dig into our deeper desires. From there, a clarity emerges that ultimately drives and motivates our forward action.
So, it's not so much a single question as it is following a path of exploration and inquiry. What's going on? What are you wanting? What's blocking you? How are your fears playing in the situation? What is it you really want? What might you do to get that? What's next?
I love what I get to do.