Facilitating a team retreat the other day and I shared, "The King has every right to leave the castle and head off into battle. But when they do, they put the kingdom at risk."
"That's cool Vince. What are you talking about?" the group asked.
Let's unpack this a bit. When I think of all the great stories of knights and castles and courts and ladies, there are always certain characters that show up. The King... The Warrior... The Lover... the Wizard... and what I've learned is that these characters (or archetypes) have a certain place in each of us right here right now. We each have an "Inner King" and an "Inner Warrior" and I believe it serves us well to get to know these parts.
So, when I think about the "King" in me (or the "Sovereign"), I am thinking about that part of me that holds, comforts, initiates, and decides things. That's what Kings do! I need my "Inner Sovereign" to be online and not get too caught up in the day to day grind of what's in front of me at this moment. I need my Inner King to hold the balance between protecting and expanding my life.
And so, going back into many of the ancient stories, when the King leaves the castle bad stuff happens. Evil wizards take over. Lovers swoop in and wreak havoc. Warriors raid and take their plunder. Things run amok.
"Okay. Keep going," they said. "And help us see what this has to do with our CEO?"
Think about the role of the CEO. The CEO's role is to initiate, decide, align with purpose, comfort and celebrate... in short... a lot like the sovereign of days gone by. But, before you go bowing and scraping to your CEO, let the metaphor just land on the governance role of the King... not the royal pomp bit.
Often, the CEO was the best damn Sales Manager this company ever knew. Or the best CFO. Or, the best COO back in the day. So, it is no surprise that the CEO might have something to say about those roles now. About how things should be done. But, the CEO's job is not to direct activity. It is to define outcomes. It's up to today's hot shot Sales Manager to figure out the way to hit the outcome. That's why he or she is the hot shot sales manager. If the CEO defines the activity for the hot shot, well, the hot shot likely isn't all that hot. He or she is just creating a dependency on the CEO... which drains energy and risks keeping the CEO from focusing on the more important issues of stewarding, protecting and advancing the broader work of the enterprise.
"Wow. We get it. But really, there will be no bowing to the CEO, correct?"
Tuesday, May 30, 2017
"Cool", I said. "What are you noticing different?"
"It's weird. The CEO doesn't expect me to really DO anything. But I better be able to communicate what is going on in my area in just a few words and speak clearly to the end results."
"It sounds like you're being pushed a bit?"
"Well yeah. I've always been measured by what I personally got done. Now, I just make sure that an awful lot is accomplished, and more importantly I've got to be able to wrap it all up in a sound bite!"
"So, how's it working for you?"
"At first it was very uncomfortable. Now, I'm learning that my job is really more about listening and asking good questions. I used to think I had to answer all the questions to be valuable. It's a shift."
And that's the difference between a producer (or an "operator", or "the front end") and an executive. Producers get things gone. Executives hold all the tension in an organization, all the risk, the biggest picture. Executives ask good questions, communicate clearly, and make things happen.
Friday, February 3, 2017
"If it works for you, keep it," I say!
So for now, this blog and simple introduction works for me! My practice is full and vibrant and flexible and I love it! Could I do more? Probably. And, I enjoy the life balance of time in the mountains, at the beach, and in the desert. I enjoy coming alongside an eclectic group of clients who all want to dig-in and grow as people and leaders. I'm also enjoying the process of welcoming others into this work and supporting their development as strategic accompanists, guides, and facilitators.
At some point, I may decide that "it's not working for me!" And at that moment, the possibility of change will arrive and I will assess the risks and benefits of moving forward in a new way.
Until then, I'm off to the mountain. 2" of fresh snow last night.